
Warning: This story comprises distressing content material.
A Sydney household has been left heartbroken and shattered after their 12-year-old daughter, Charlotte, took her personal life, along with her mother and father saying relentless bullying was accountable.
Charlotte, a Yr 7 scholar at Santa Sabina School in Strathfield, tragically died by suicide earlier this month. Her grieving mother and father spoke with Ben Fordham on 2GB, sharing their ache and demanding solutions to stop one other younger life from being misplaced to bullying.
Hello Ben, earlier this week our household skilled a day that can hang-out us for the remainder of our lives.
We misplaced our child lady in essentially the most terrible of circumstances. She was simply 12 years previous.
No phrases can ever describe what its like for us and it’ll by no means be the identical once more.
Charlotte has left such a giant gap in our lives, and he or she’s so deeply, deeply missed.
The studies you will have obtained are appropriate. My daughter was bullied by ladies that also attend the college right this moment.
She wrote a goodbye be aware particularly mentioning the bullying she obtained on the college.
She mentioned life was too troublesome for her to proceed.
When the latest case of bullying was raised, the college merely mentioned it was investigated and the ladies denied it. That’s it. Case closed. Transfer on.
Properly my lovely daughter’s life received’t transfer on and I’ll by no means get to say goodbye.
These points can’t be swept underneath the carpet. I cannot let my daughter’s reminiscence be swept underneath the carpet both.
What number of extra kids must lose their lives earlier than they get it? What number of mother and father must really feel the ache of by no means having the ability to choose up their baby from college once more earlier than they get it?
We’re damaged ceaselessly.”
Charlotte’s mother and father revealed she had been the goal of ongoing bullying, which had been dropped at the college’s consideration. “My daughter was bullied by ladies who nonetheless attend the college. In her goodbye be aware, she particularly talked about the bullying she endured,” they shared.
The household had instructed him for 2 years they’d complained about Charlotte being bullied at Santa Sabina School.

The household mentioned on ‘one specific day the college referred to as mum to rearrange for Charlotte to be picked up as a result of Charlotte had been crying within the bathrooms’.
‘She instructed the lady who discovered her “I don’t need to be right here”. She instructed her mum “My physique fills with ache till my coronary heart explodes”, Fordham mentioned.
Nonetheless, they declare the college’s investigation dismissed the accusations after the bullies denied them. “That was it—case closed.
However my daughter’s life received’t transfer on. I’ll by no means get to say goodbye. Her reminiscence can’t simply be swept underneath the rug.”
Regardless of receiving counselling, remedy, and drugs to assist her address declining psychological well being, Charlotte’s mother and father really feel she was let down by her college and the system.
“What number of extra kids must lose their lives earlier than faculties begin taking this significantly? What number of mother and father must really feel the ache of by no means choosing their baby up from college once more?”
Take heed to the Phase with Ben Fordham beneath.
Self Hurt and Suicide a Main Downside” for Younger Individuals
NSW Premier Chris Minns addressed the allegations of dying and bullying by saying he “can’t think about what these mother and father are going via proper now”, including he was “deeply sorry”.
“My coronary heart simply goes out to that household … there may actually be nothing worse than dealing with that,” Minns instructed reporters.
“They’ve bought a troublesome interval in entrance of them … and I hope that they’re able to heal.
“I’m positive that they need solutions, and I can fully perceive that.”
Minns mentioned self-harm and suicide have been a “main drawback” for younger folks in NSW.
“We had made main inroads on account of an enormous public consciousness campaigns … proper throughout the nation, however since 2010 it has elevated once more, the prevalence of it’s again up round the place it was within the 2000s,” he mentioned.
“Each life misplaced was one which was preventable … and a life that has been snuffed out with the longer term in entrance of them and a world at their ft.”
Tragic circumstances
A buddy of Charlotte’s, who had related along with her on-line, additionally shared her anguish. The younger lady’s father referred to as into Fordham to present Charlotte a “voice.”
“Charlotte felt folks had taken personal data and used it towards her. It pushed her to the brink. We are able to’t sit again and let this proceed.”
Whereas the ache and anger are overwhelming, Charlotte’s mom, Kelly, has urged the general public to not place blame on the scholars concerned. “I urge you, please don’t make these little ladies really feel accountable. Charlotte made a mistake in a second of deep grief. She didn’t imply to do that—she didn’t actually perceive.”

The college’s principal, Paulina Skerman, has responded, saying the bullying allegations are being taken significantly. She additionally warned towards dangerous hypothesis. “Claims of bullying are severe and are being investigated. We’re dedicated to the security of all college students and ask anybody with firsthand data to report it via correct channels.”
Don’t Downplay the Scenario
A number one worldwide skilled has condemned a faculty’s messaging over the suicide of a 12-year-old scholar in the identical space.
Presbyterian Women School, positioned just some suburbs from Santa Sabina School in Strathfield, knowledgeable Yr 7 mother and father that social connections between the 2 faculties have been inevitable, however they didn’t plan to handle the scholars instantly at the moment. In addition they suggested mother and father to not communicate in regards to the tragedy to their daughters until they ‘raised it with you’ first.
Professor Hickie, co-director of well being and coverage on the College of Sydney’s Mind and Thoughts Centre, pressured the significance of acknowledging what occurred fairly than ignoring or downplaying it.
“Dad and mom, faculties, and lecturers want to have interaction within the dialog and keep related with these instantly affected,” he instructed the Every day Telegraph.
“Whereas it’s essential to deal with the constructive elements of life, merely glossing over the problem isn’t useful.”
Santa Sabina has been providing counselling this week to college students, mother and father and the broader neighborhood.
This heartbreaking tragedy is a painful reminder of the necessity for stronger motion to guard our youngsters from bullying. No household ought to need to endure this unimaginable loss.
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